Hey, married couples—want to spice it up in the bedroom? F is for free-ranging fingertips…K is for kissing, Hollywood-style…N is for naughty videos! If you want to know how to have good sex, read on for more tips—one for each letter of the alphabet.
ACCESSORIZE THE ACTION
To really blow his mind, break out the bling-bling and wear nothing but jewelry to bed: It’ll fulfill his Vegas-showgirl fantasy. Graze the nape of his neck with your chandelier earrings. Slip on a stack of bangles and create a clamor under the comforter. Or skim your superlong strand of faux pearls up and down his legs. (Earn bonus points if you tie him to the bedpost with them.)
BEER IN BED
The secret to making midweek nooky more naughty: Pop a few exotic microbrews in the sack, and then drink to the rowdy fun to come.
CANOODLE LIKE THE CELEBS
Celebs are always (tastefully, for the most part) displaying their public affection, whether it be on the red carpet or courtside at the big game. Take a cue from your favorite famous pair and show your hubby how much you love him when the two of you are out and about.
DON A DOMINATRIX ATTITUDE
No, we’re not suggesting you wear leather; just take charge in the bedroom. Order him to strip, then to kiss your toes, then your calves, then your knees, then your….
Trust us: There’s a link between working up a sweat and having hot sex. When your blood is really pumping, your orgasms are more intense. For maximum mojo, hit the gym together late in the day, as close to your personal blastoff time as possible.
Instead of parking your hands in his hair or on the small of his back, keep your fingertips—with their oh-so-sensitive nerve endings—roaming over his body. This extrasensory experience will supersize both your pleasure and his.
Haven’t worn one since your wedding? Then it’s time to give him a second viewing. (It’ll transform you into a sultry femme fatale from a forties movie; perhaps he’ll want to role-play the hard-boiled private eye.) On your next date night, slide his palm under your skirt just far enough so that he realizes you aren’t wearing your usual hose. A sexy mystery will begin!
HEIGHTEN THE HEAT
Transform standard missionary-style sex into sizzling passion with one of these position-switching moves: 1. Stick a pillow under your butt—the lift will make sure you’re rubbed in the most intense way. 2. Once he’s inside you, squeeze your legs together for a more tantalizing fit. 3. Pull your legs up around the sides of his thighs; then gently push his tush with your soles.
INTENSIFY ICE CREAM EATING
Remember in high school, when you got a rush from sharing the same cone with a guy? Next time you’re Ben & Jerry’s bound, split a scoop with your sweetie. Be sure to lick the drips off his fingers and chin.
JUMP HIS BONES
Sneak up from behind while your guy is paying the bills. Slip into the steamy bathroom while he’s showering. Fondle his thigh while he’s watching Sunday afternoon football. And be sure to moan that he’s too hot and irresistible for you to wait.
Just once—heck, make that once a day—treat yourself to a head-thrown-back, big-screen smooch. Or try this riveting slow-motion twist: Grab him by his tie, reel him in, and plant your luscious, lingering lips on him. Who does that kind of thing, anyway? Why, you two do!
LITTLE BLACK UNDIES
You already know that a little black dress is essential. But what every married gal also needs is a barely there lace bikini or thong in noir. It’ll make your man dizzy with desire.
MESSAGES WITHOUT WORDS
Shh! Agree to spend an evening using only body language to get your amorous intentions across. You’ll discover a new level of touch.
Tell your hubby that you really want to watch a special documentary together; then surprise him by turning off the lights and turning on a racy film.
OPEN YOUR EYES
For the ultimate in bedroom bonding, make a pact to keep your pupils focused on each other while doing the deed. You’ll stay in the moment—getting an eyeful of each other’s climaxes.
PRIME HIS PERINEUM
To give your guy intense pleasure, gently knead the nerve-ending-intense area right behind his scrotum.
QUICKIES, AND LOTS OF ‘EM
Divert his attention ten minutes before he leaves for work, or as you’re headed to a dinner party. Keep him guessing when your impromptu passion will propel you to need him "right now."
REMINISCE ABOUT THAT TIME YOU TWO…
Here’s a little-known truth about rabid-for-each-other couples: They’re always running a postgame recap of their favorite sex-capades. Detail what you love most, and refer back to your sultriest moment often.
SIGNATURE SEX STUNT
Think of your favorite move, then give it a raunchy name. Here’s how: Start with "the." Add an adjective that applies to small animals, such as "frisky." Finish with the name of a wild animal, like "gazelle." Look out! You crazy kids do The Frisky Gazelle.
TICKLE HIM WITH YOUR HAIR
Letting your locks brush alongside his torso is a huge turn-on. It strokes his biggest sex organ: his skin.
So your husband doesn’t have Brad Pitt’s abs or Sting’s flair for tantric sex. Whisper to him that you can’t imagine waking up next to a sexier, more exciting man than him.
Why single one day out of 365 for wicked wooing? Celebrate every milestone: the first time you two rocked, the night you mastered Kama Sutra’s The Vine position, and the afternoon on a tropical beach when you let the waves surge between your legs.
WEAR HIM OUT
One time, two times, three times—and again. Get into a randy rhythm.
X-RATED PILLOW TALK
A few well-placed dirty words on the mattress will make him want to bleep the bleep out of you.
A slow, steady exhale makes for more than good yoga: It’s the secret behind toe-curling orgasms. But even if you don’t know a Downward Dog from a hot dog, you can still master this momentous-sex must. Rather than holding in your breath as an orgasm approaches, slowly breathe out, expelling all the air from your lungs before inhaling again.
Z’S & THE 2 A.M. TRICK
Why let an arousing dream go to waste? Next time you wake up after a sexy subconscious scorcher, rouse your man from his slumber and share that frenzied feeling. He’ll thank you.